One day, during our small group fellowship, my dad asked a simple question.
He asked the students and me, "What does Christmas mean to you?"
Almost instinctively, I answered with two words: family and hope.
I didn’t realise then how much those words would come alive for me this Christmas.
After many years, we are celebrating Christmas together as a family—my sister, my brother-in-law, my two nieces, my parents, my son, and me. Being together feels like a holy pause. Nothing dramatic. Just presence. Just time. Just people who belong to one another.
“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity.” (Psalm 133:1)
This Christmas, I am deeply thankful for family.
Thankful for my son saying “Shana maasi,” his face lighting up as he calls her name, and for her sitting on the floor with him, playing without hurry.
Thankful for my brother-in-law swinging both my niece and my son in the park. For my niece calling out, “Swing me, dadda!” and my son immediately repeating it—learning love through repetition, through watching, through being included.
And for my brother-in-law smiling and responding, “Yes, dadda will swing you.”
In that moment, standing in the park, I found myself unexpectedly teary-eyed.
Because joy didn’t shout.
It whispered and stayed.
“From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.” (John 1:16)
I am thankful for my mum, feeding breakfast to all three grandchildren—serving quietly, joyfully, without announcement.
I am thankful for my dad, who shares the Word powerfully in church, and then later swings the grandchildren at the beach, laughs with them, and plays in the sand.
“But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24:15)
And sometimes serving the Lord looks like preaching.
Sometimes it looks like building sandcastles and pushing swings.
This Christmas also carries absence.
We miss my sister, who is in the States. We are having fun, and at the same time, we are aware of the ache.
And in the middle of presence and absence, joy and longing, Christmas gives us hope.
Hope that God keeps His promises.
Hope that love stretches across distance.
“The people walking in darkness have seen a great light.” (Isaiah 9:2)
Hope looks like my son growing up surrounded by family—by grandparents who pray over him, by aunts and uncles who delight in him, by cousins who grow alongside him.
Hope looks like faith passed down not just through sermons, but through shared meals, shared laughter, shared life.
“One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts.” (Psalm 145:4)
Christmas reminds me that God chose to enter the world through family.
Through a home.
Through human relationships.
Through a child placed into ordinary arms.
“The Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us.” (John 1:14)
This year, I am acutely aware of how blessed I am.
How blessed my son is.
Christmas with family is the best.
Not because it is flawless, but because it is faithful.
Because in these ordinary moments, God is present.
And in that presence, hope is born again.
“Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!” (2 Corinthians 9:15)
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